writers guilt writing tipsThis week I’ve been coaching two clients who seem to be having the same problem.
They can’t MAKE themselves sit down and suffer through the torture of getting started with their writing.

I see this happen so often. In fact, I’ve “been there, done that” myself.
Here’s how it goes: You have a writing project you really want to start. But the prospect of finally tackling it is a bit daunting, to say the least.
And no matter how hard you try, you just CAN’T seem to make any progress.
Worse than that! You can’t even get started!
So you finally decide to do something other than write.
After all, if you aren’t going to get any writing done you might as well clean the house, or throw a load of laundry into the washer, or go to the gym and get some exercise.
But then you find you can’t do any of this either because while you start to clean the house, or start to do the laundry, or start to get some exercise, you’re plagued with that nagging guilt.
The guilt that screams, “You SHOULD be writing!”
So now, instead of doing something else that’s productive, you’re sitting around feeling guilty for NOT writing.
And you realize this is totally insane!
Now, you’re not only NOT writing, you’re not doing anything else either.
The guilt of NOT writing has totally paralyzed you!
And you start to think, Surely REAL writers don’t go through all this guilt. Surely they just sit down and write and get their work done.
Sound familiar?
If you’re a writer, I’m sure this little scenario IS familiar. I think all writers go through this at some point.
But the writers who go on to publish - and maybe even make a living from their writing - get to a point where they’re tired of feeling guilty.
They’re tired of disappointing themselves by NOT writing what they know in their hearts they CAN and SHOULD be writing.
So they sit in their chairs and just start writing.
Usually, they write page after page of sheer crap.
But eventually they get to “the good stuff.”
I promise - you’ll get to “the good stuff,” too, if you just sit down and start wading through all the crap.
I can’t say that it will ever get easier to get started. Usually, I have to wade through all sorts of crap before I get to “the good stuff” of any project.
But at least I no longer let FEAR create the GUILT that paralyzes me and keeps me from getting my writing done.
And you don’t have to let that happen either.
It’s true that misery loves company.
So take comfort in knowing that millions of writers the world over are sitting down to start writing.
And it’s probably a painful start for all of them!
But there’s no greater pain than guilt.
Let go of the guilt and you’ll find that wading through a bunch of crap is really quite painless in comparison!
Happy wading (I mean) writing!